Dolly Dorms: Grow Old Disgracefully With Communal Living
Does the thought of a traditional care home make you cringe? Does the idea of living alone feel like a recipe for loneliness? As we age, our living options often seem limited and less fun. But what if there was another way?
Seriously Now: A Lighthearted Chat About Our Future
Making decisions about care for our loved ones is never easy. Recently, I had to decide whether to arrange a carer at home or to place my parents in a care home. This got me thinking about what I would prefer for myself in a similar situation. The conversation I had with my husband on this topic turned into a fun and somewhat enlightening exploration of our differing views.
Unexpected Tears: The Power of a Song to Bring Back Memories
Who would have thought mopping the floor could end in floods of tears (although housework does occasionally bring on the urg to cry!… Sometimes, the most ordinary tasks can hit you with the most unexpected emotions.
When Children Cut Contact: Understanding and Healing the Rift
While it often makes headline news when high-profile families experience disputes, such as the recent issues within the British royal family involving Prince Harry and his children, Archie and Lilibet, many ordinary families face similar challenges.
Health and Common Sense
We can read countless articles on preventable illnesses and improving health, but the fundamental solutions often boil down to two simple principles: eat healthy and exercise more. Despite this simplicity, many of us struggle to implement these changes in our daily lives.
Preventative Medicine – Keeping Diabetes at Bay in Your 40s and Beyond
As we realise we arent getting younger, its good to look at preventable illness and one of the key ones is diabetes. An article in the Daily Mail today highlighted how from your 40’s you can keep this at bay
Your Personal Portfolio: Building Your Own "Support Squad"
We often meticulously structure our professional lives, ensuring we have the right leaders, followers, and contemporaries to achieve success. But how often do we apply this structure to our personal lives? Think of your personal life as your own "team" — it's not work, but it operates similarly.
Celebrating Separate Lives: Modern Couples Who Choose Unique Paths
In the bustling city of London, a subtle yet compelling love story unfolds between acclaimed actors Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton.
Embracing Separate Spaces: A Modern Love Story
In the quaint towns of Figueres and Cadaqués in Catalonia, Spain, a unique love story unfolded between the iconic artist Salvador Dalí and his muse, Gala.
Siblings in Court: Inheritance Disputes
Recent headlines are filled with stories of siblings battling in court over inheritance disputes or the care of elderly parents. These legal battles highlight how deeply family relationships can be strained, with old grievances resurfacing and leading to estrangement. It raises the question: when did the family grow so far apart, and how far back do these issues really go?
When Love Is Tested: Managing Personality Changes in Loved Ones
When the ones we love change before our eyes, whether due to old age, an accident, or illness, it can feel as though we've lost them while they're still right beside us. Their altered personality might make them seem like strangers, and it's a painful adjustment for everyone involved. Here are some practical steps to navigate this difficult journey with understanding and compassion.
From Love Letters to Facebook: The Evolution of Keeping in Touch
In Jojo Moyes' novel and Netflix film "The Last Letter from Your Lover," we dive into the world of 1965, where a secret love affair blooms through a series of heartfelt letters. Jennifer Stirling, stuck in an unhappy marriage, finds comfort and excitement in her correspondence with Anthony O’Hare, a charming journalist. These letters, hidden for decades, are discovered by Ellie Haworth, a modern journalist. Ellie becomes absorbed in the romance and passion of these old letters, which is so different from how we communicate today.
The Emotional Toll of Caring for an Elderly Parent: A Realistic Look at Family Dynamics
Sometimes, things can happen suddenly which throws your whole life into turmoil and unexpected areas.
Navigating Parental Care and Financial Solutions
When a parent becomes ill or requires more care, families often face the challenging task of managing care and finances. Here’s a feature on what can happen and potential ways to address this situation, especially when the parent owns valuable property but lacks liquid cash.
Understanding the Importance of Recognising Loneliness
Loneliness is a deeply personal experience that can manifest differently for everyone. It’s not always about being physically alone; it can also occur in the most unexpected situations. For some, loneliness might arise from being in an unfulfilling relationship where emotional connection is lacking.
Identifying and Easing Loneliness in Elderly Family Members
Caring for an ageing parent who feels lonely is a heart-wrenching dilemma, especially if you’re already stretched thin by the demands of a full-time job and the needs of your children or other commitments.
Calm Your Mind with the Art of Journaling
In our fast-paced, digitally-dominated world, finding moments of introspection can feel like a luxury we can't afford. Yet, the simple act of putting pen to paper, a practice known as journaling, has been championed by psychologists as a powerful tool for mental well-being.
Are Prescribed Medicines being taken as prescribed…
Often for example as our parents age, ensuring they take their prescribed medications correctly becomes a crucial aspect of their health care.
A Member’s Response: Discovering My Father Wasn't in Control of His Medication
After reading the article on ensuring parents take their prescribed medicines, I felt compelled to share my own experience with my father. I had noticed that my dad was becoming more forgetful recently, and his behavior had started to worry me. It began with small things, like misplacing items or repeating questions, but then it escalated to much more concerning signs.
The Surprising Healing Power of Poetry
Many people wouldn't think of turning to poetry for therapy or guidance, or even select to read poems, but those who do are often pleasantly surprised by the profound impact it can have.